I hope everyone is continuing to work on being the best version of YOU in these crazy times. Tonight I want to talk about taking ownership. Owning up to your own faults and really taking the time to think about the things that you may need to improve. Most of us spend a lot of time thinking about what others are doing wrong and putting all of our energy into trying to figure out what everyone else's problem is. Instead of looking in the mirror and really digging deep into the things we can improve. Not only do we need to look within, but really capture the essence of who we truly are.
People spend so much time pointing fingers that we forget that sometimes.... WE may be the problem. Yes ladies... no matter how great we think we are, there's always something that we can improve upon. Remember NO ONE is perfect, so the first thing I want to remind you ladies is to stop looking for that PERFECT man. I'm here to tell you that he doesn't exist. There is however someone out there whose perfect for you.
Next, let's talk about the fact that most of us grow up having no idea who we really are. You grow up trying to be the version that maybe your parent's thought you should be or trying to be like everyone around you and sadly, this could be the reason you may not be attracting that partner who is a good match for you. It's a must that you know who you really are before you're out there demanding of another human being with lists of wants and desires without bringing a complete package to the table.
I also want to remind you that if you need substances (drugs, alcohol) altering your thoughts and who you really are, then you're not ready to find your lifetime partner. Society tends to use drugs or alcohol to cover up the fact that we are unable to naturally communicate. If you are the type to not feel happy, comfortable or relaxed unless you have a drink or two then lets stop right here. This would be the issue where we need to learn how to communicate with clear thoughts and the ability to be present.
We don't realize that drinking that glass of wine in order to relax could be the exact reason that you keep on attracting the wrong type of people into your life. I don't know how many times I've said this to women in the past. You definitely won't be finding Mr. Right at the end of a bottle or in any type of club or drinking setting. This is where most of us make our first mistakes, meeting people as we pretend to be someone that we're not. If you need any type of substance in order to carry a conversation, then do yourself a favor and work on YOU for a bit.
This is where having that serious talk with your relationship coach will help take you to that next level in your life. Most are too stubborn and think they can figure it out on their own, while wasting years of your life making the same mistakes over and over again. You have to work through the reasons why things may not be changing. If you're meeting the same type of men and wondering "is it me"? Well, I'm here to say it just may be. If you're at the point where you feel that your life is a revolving door, with the same type of people then take this time to reach out for a little bit of support.
Today is the day that you begin to work towards true happiness and peace!